Women Deserve So Much More Recognition
Women deserve so much more recognition than what they have been given. Not only from Men, but from other Women, too.
Women go through some shit many men have never even heard of. Go find a baby and take a good look at him/her. Pick him up and hold him. Feel their weight and their density. Feel their presence. Notice their awareness and assume that they understand enough to know to wrap their whole hand around your finger when they feel it lie in the palm of their little hands. Everything you’ll experience in this moment is a product of the pain of some woman somewhere, but also the product of another man’s pleasure. Children are so incredible. And incredible design is the product of some kind of physical and mental journey which is also incredible but often untold. I have no idea what it really takes for women to endure such labor. Laboring of both Childbirth and Childcare are feats that even the greatest business men could not handle and It’s sad to see that young girls are forced to become Women earlier than they are mentally prepared to do so. Yet they handle it so well and both Men and Women attempt to tear them down continuously, but can’t because the women are already grounded and humbled. With so many things happening in their lives personally, which they do not speak about, they still leave home to work, to smile, to be cat-called at and tried, then judged by other women who refuse to try and slip even a single toe in her shoes or finger in her glove.
Women are capable of so much, but I think I’ve figured it out. Many of them won’t do more because the majority of contributions they have made thus far seem to have gone unnoticed. I see it. What is easy for us may be more mentally challenging for them. When we (men) get praise (by other men) for something as simple/complex as hooking up with a woman, that woman is often criticized by other women. In marriage and in business, though they are one in the same, there should be more women in leadership positions and in general, positions to win and even more men will succeed because of it. Women deserve more recognition than what’s been given.
Counting From Zero: Start With Your Mind
When we’re taught to count, we’re generally taught to start with the number 1. As we get older, we adapt this technique not only numbers, but with our mindset and with people. Just as the clock or the timer starts from .00 to .01 and counts up to 1.00 (or 12:00:01 to 1:00:00 on a clock), we must start where the minute and second hand both point in this moment. If your body was the clock, where would that be? Your mind. By starting with 1, the second hand (the beliefs) must past each number (or experience) 11 times before the hour hand (the heart) reaches it’s starting point. We experience and attempt to understand the experiences and things outside of ourselves and time passes before we are forced to be faced with our minds.
Why wait until you are forced to face yourself? You can start counting from zero as soon as you’re ready. How can you apply this to your daily life? Prepare yourself mentally to believe that you will accomplish whatever goal you’re about to set for yourself before pursuing it. By doing this you are starting with zero instead of pursuing for the goal first, facing those 11 experiences, stressing your mind and neglecting your health and killing your confidence in the process. The first thing you can do at the beginning of each day is mentally prepare for the inevitable arrival of the situations that will indubitably support the outcome you plan to experience for that day, which will inherently support the outcome of your week / month / year / life. Prepare your mind to believe that any action taken by someone that isn’t perceived to support your goal is one which will manifest through conditional reasoning and not intentional reasoning.
In English, if someone pulls out in front of you on the road, assume that you are that person. Now assume that you had an unintended conditional reason for pulling out in front of someone such as, “I wasn’t paying attention to the person behind me because my child is late for school or I am late for work and I am rushing” Now with yourself in that person’s shoes, apologize to yourself. “I am sorry for pulling out in front of you”.
By creating this mindset first thing in the morning, if someone does pull out in front of you on any given day, the first thing you should do in this case is accept their apology which you’ve mentally created for them ahead of time and mentally reply to them with, “I forgive you, I understand, It’s okay and I hope you make it wherever you need to be.” Because you’ve started at zero, your 1 will be predetermined and 2 – 11 will be more than likely to have a more positive effect on your 12. — Because you’ve started with your mind, your beliefs will be predetermined and your actions, words, perceptions, intentions will all have a more positive effect on your mind. Your life is the clock. The minute hand is the heart. Zero or Twelve is the mind. Don’t start with your beliefs because your beliefs were created by someone else. With life, start counting from zero Start with your mind. That is the only thing that can truly define what you believe, what you can achieve, and why.
Thank you for reading my thoughts for the day. I don’t do these often on my blog, but that’s about to change. It would mean a great deal to me if you shared my work with a friend or family member. Again, Thank You!
Thank you for reading my thoughts for the day. I don’t do these often on my blog, but that’s about to change. It would mean a great deal to me if you shared my work with a friend or family member. Again, Thank You!